How to overcome negative thoughts? Well first, I am sure that most of you have experienced a situation where you are overly excited about a certain goal and that you are willing to do whatever it takes to obtain that certain something, whatever it might be, but the people around you or are close to you seem to be very skeptical and downright non supportive. At first you might say to yourself "they're just over-thinking" but due to the massive amount of hardships you were going through, you eventually decide that they might just be right, right?
WRONG!
Why would you want to spend the likelihood of you accomplishing a goal that others believed were impossible but YOU were confident enough to convince yourself that you might just be able to do it? Why would you want to let them pull you down and stop you? When you are seeking to achieve your objectives in life, there are bound to be complications, but that certainly does not mean it is not possible.
I'm not sure if you can relate to this story but I'm just going to believe that you can. There is this one wrestling game called "Hell In A Cell" (I probably got the name wrong, its been decades since I last watched wrestling) where a number of wrestlers are put together within the ring enclosed by a walls of steel. There is only one rule to the game, whichever wrestler that manages to climb the walls and get through to the other side will be the winner. If the wrestler get pulled down while going up the wall, he'll end up back inside the ring with the other wrestlers keep beating each other up.
It is exactly the same in life, whenever you are trying to get to your goal, others will constantly try to pull you down back to the "ring". The key to winning in life is really to persevere through the tough times and keep your focus on the goal, which is in this case, getting to the other side of the wall.
Overcoming negative thoughts is not easy, I know how hard it is when almost everyone close to you are constantly trying to convince you that the thing you want to achieve is not possible. My advice to you is this, try to associate more with positive people, surround yourself with the people who are supportive and wants to see you succeed. How do you find these people? It is really simple, by keep on doing whatever it is that you have to do to achieve that particular goal that you want.
You'll start to notice that there are actually a lot of people who are ready to be supportive of you. If you believe in yourself enough you'll find a strong reason why you choose to do it and eventually those people who are not supportive will learn to adapt. How to overcome negative thoughts? Simple. Just keep on doing the things that you think is right and never allow yourself to give up.
WRONG!
Why would you want to spend the likelihood of you accomplishing a goal that others believed were impossible but YOU were confident enough to convince yourself that you might just be able to do it? Why would you want to let them pull you down and stop you? When you are seeking to achieve your objectives in life, there are bound to be complications, but that certainly does not mean it is not possible.
I'm not sure if you can relate to this story but I'm just going to believe that you can. There is this one wrestling game called "Hell In A Cell" (I probably got the name wrong, its been decades since I last watched wrestling) where a number of wrestlers are put together within the ring enclosed by a walls of steel. There is only one rule to the game, whichever wrestler that manages to climb the walls and get through to the other side will be the winner. If the wrestler get pulled down while going up the wall, he'll end up back inside the ring with the other wrestlers keep beating each other up.
It is exactly the same in life, whenever you are trying to get to your goal, others will constantly try to pull you down back to the "ring". The key to winning in life is really to persevere through the tough times and keep your focus on the goal, which is in this case, getting to the other side of the wall.
Overcoming negative thoughts is not easy, I know how hard it is when almost everyone close to you are constantly trying to convince you that the thing you want to achieve is not possible. My advice to you is this, try to associate more with positive people, surround yourself with the people who are supportive and wants to see you succeed. How do you find these people? It is really simple, by keep on doing whatever it is that you have to do to achieve that particular goal that you want.
You'll start to notice that there are actually a lot of people who are ready to be supportive of you. If you believe in yourself enough you'll find a strong reason why you choose to do it and eventually those people who are not supportive will learn to adapt. How to overcome negative thoughts? Simple. Just keep on doing the things that you think is right and never allow yourself to give up.
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