Flying is one of the most common means of transportation for you to get from one destination to the next. However, there are some who are so overcome with the fear of flying that they simply to afraid to fly and will seek alternative methods of transportation regardless of the travel time. This fear of flying is often referred to as aviophobia.Compared to driving accidents, accidents on air are few and far between. This doesn't mean that they don't happen at all but statistics show that in-air collisions are rare.
Know what to expect. Fear and anxiety usually happen when your mind wanders off and imagine all sorts of possibilities that could happen. Things such as the plane will crash, the plane will burn, the plane will explode and other negative situations can all create fear. Without knowing to expect, a simple turbulence can instantly send you to panicville. Try to familiarize yourself with the sounds and movements of an airplane so that you'll understand what you're experiencing during take off, landing or when the plane hits turbulence. There are a lot of resources online that can help you understand what to expect.
Overcoming Your Fear of Flying.Like it was mentioned above, there are ways for you to get over your fear of flying. Here are some steps that are worth practicing so you can fly everywhere without having to go through all the symptoms of aviophobia.Know the Facts - Find out the facts or statistics about accidents happening on air and compare them to the statistics when it comes to driving accidents. You are sure to find that the odds of having an on-air collision is slim compared to that of driving accidents.
Know the Effects of Flying - In order for you to cure yourself of your fear of flying it is best that you find out what should you expect when you fly. This includes the make and model of the plane that you will be riding, its speed, what side effects you are supposed to feel during take off and landing and how long it will take you to reach your destination.Meditate - If your fear of flying is still there after doing research on the first two steps, you should learn the art of meditation. When boarding a plane, think of things that are pleasant to you so you can keep your mind off the fact that you will be flying. You can practice breathing exercises, read a book or hum a tune. Anything that can help you focus on something else.
Fear of flying may be common, but that doesn't make it any less of a problem. The panic you experience even thinking about taking a flight can be truly debilitating - but fortunately, it is something which can be overcome. You don't have to stay close to home for vacations, refrain from attending family reunions and weddings located too far away to drive. All you have to do is start putting the five following tips to use; it may not happen overnight, but if you're determined to get past your fear of flying, you can do it.
Understand the root cause of your fear of flying:Anxiety disorders and phobias, including the fear of flying, are usually rooted in the same thing: the fear of losing control. Whether you're afraid of being in a confined space for a few hours during your flight, being off the ground or any other aspect of flying, it more than likely boils down to not being able to be in control of the situation you find yourself in. Once you understand this, it's easier to work to overcome it, since you now have a place to start from.
When we have negative life experiences, our behavior becomes conditioned to respond through avoidance or anxiety. Either you freak out when you have to fly, or you avoid flying altogether. The more flying is paired with anxiety, the more conditioned your response becomes. In time, simply going to the airport can trigger an anxiety attack.Our beliefs also add to our anxiety.
Take my friend Marybeth, as long as I've known her she's flown without a problem. Being claustrophobic however, she always chose to sit in an isle seat. But recently, she had an experience where she wanted to get up and move around, and the stewardess told her she had to stay in her seat. Marybeth began to feel trapped on the plane. She did what all of us do; she began "what if" thinking. What if she needed to get up and she wasn't allowed to? What if she panicked? What if she needed to use the rest room? What if she couldn't get an isle seat?
Be prepared:There's nothing that can make your anxiety about flying worse than having to rush to the airport at the last minute. Even though the stress of being late may not have much to do with your fear of flying, if you're already stressed out when you arrive at the airport, you'll have a much harder time relaxing once you're on the plane. Make a point of arriving early for your flight in order to give yourself some time to sit down, decompress and use some of your relaxation techniques so that you're ready for take-off.
The good news is you can change or modify these beliefs by learning to refute them in light of the truth. Challenge yourself by asking the following questions:What evidence do I have to support my belief the plane will crash? What is the worse that could happen if I panic, and how does that compare to the worst thing I've ever experienced? Do I want to upset myself? How likely is it that these bad consequences will occur? If the worst does happen, how can I handle it? The other key piece is paying attention to what you're telling yourself. Harness negative self- talk that perpetuates your fears by:Noticing how what you're telling yourself impacts your mood Not talking about your anxiety to everyone. It perpetuates it.Not listening to everyone's horror stories about flying,Other tips for the fearful flier include:Chose an isle seat if you're claustrophobic,Learn relaxation and deep breathing exercises to calm yourself,Distract yourself by reading, listening to music, or watching a movie
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Know what to expect. Fear and anxiety usually happen when your mind wanders off and imagine all sorts of possibilities that could happen. Things such as the plane will crash, the plane will burn, the plane will explode and other negative situations can all create fear. Without knowing to expect, a simple turbulence can instantly send you to panicville. Try to familiarize yourself with the sounds and movements of an airplane so that you'll understand what you're experiencing during take off, landing or when the plane hits turbulence. There are a lot of resources online that can help you understand what to expect.
Overcoming Your Fear of Flying.Like it was mentioned above, there are ways for you to get over your fear of flying. Here are some steps that are worth practicing so you can fly everywhere without having to go through all the symptoms of aviophobia.Know the Facts - Find out the facts or statistics about accidents happening on air and compare them to the statistics when it comes to driving accidents. You are sure to find that the odds of having an on-air collision is slim compared to that of driving accidents.
Know the Effects of Flying - In order for you to cure yourself of your fear of flying it is best that you find out what should you expect when you fly. This includes the make and model of the plane that you will be riding, its speed, what side effects you are supposed to feel during take off and landing and how long it will take you to reach your destination.Meditate - If your fear of flying is still there after doing research on the first two steps, you should learn the art of meditation. When boarding a plane, think of things that are pleasant to you so you can keep your mind off the fact that you will be flying. You can practice breathing exercises, read a book or hum a tune. Anything that can help you focus on something else.
Fear of flying may be common, but that doesn't make it any less of a problem. The panic you experience even thinking about taking a flight can be truly debilitating - but fortunately, it is something which can be overcome. You don't have to stay close to home for vacations, refrain from attending family reunions and weddings located too far away to drive. All you have to do is start putting the five following tips to use; it may not happen overnight, but if you're determined to get past your fear of flying, you can do it.
Understand the root cause of your fear of flying:Anxiety disorders and phobias, including the fear of flying, are usually rooted in the same thing: the fear of losing control. Whether you're afraid of being in a confined space for a few hours during your flight, being off the ground or any other aspect of flying, it more than likely boils down to not being able to be in control of the situation you find yourself in. Once you understand this, it's easier to work to overcome it, since you now have a place to start from.
When we have negative life experiences, our behavior becomes conditioned to respond through avoidance or anxiety. Either you freak out when you have to fly, or you avoid flying altogether. The more flying is paired with anxiety, the more conditioned your response becomes. In time, simply going to the airport can trigger an anxiety attack.Our beliefs also add to our anxiety.
Take my friend Marybeth, as long as I've known her she's flown without a problem. Being claustrophobic however, she always chose to sit in an isle seat. But recently, she had an experience where she wanted to get up and move around, and the stewardess told her she had to stay in her seat. Marybeth began to feel trapped on the plane. She did what all of us do; she began "what if" thinking. What if she needed to get up and she wasn't allowed to? What if she panicked? What if she needed to use the rest room? What if she couldn't get an isle seat?
Be prepared:There's nothing that can make your anxiety about flying worse than having to rush to the airport at the last minute. Even though the stress of being late may not have much to do with your fear of flying, if you're already stressed out when you arrive at the airport, you'll have a much harder time relaxing once you're on the plane. Make a point of arriving early for your flight in order to give yourself some time to sit down, decompress and use some of your relaxation techniques so that you're ready for take-off.
The good news is you can change or modify these beliefs by learning to refute them in light of the truth. Challenge yourself by asking the following questions:What evidence do I have to support my belief the plane will crash? What is the worse that could happen if I panic, and how does that compare to the worst thing I've ever experienced? Do I want to upset myself? How likely is it that these bad consequences will occur? If the worst does happen, how can I handle it? The other key piece is paying attention to what you're telling yourself. Harness negative self- talk that perpetuates your fears by:Noticing how what you're telling yourself impacts your mood Not talking about your anxiety to everyone. It perpetuates it.Not listening to everyone's horror stories about flying,Other tips for the fearful flier include:Chose an isle seat if you're claustrophobic,Learn relaxation and deep breathing exercises to calm yourself,Distract yourself by reading, listening to music, or watching a movie
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