It's a well known fact that guys can lose interest in a relationship very quickly. One day everything's fine, and you're being treated like a princess, the next day you're dumped and you didn't even see it coming. Follow these tips on how to keep him interested, and hopefully you'll stop your boyfriend's mind and heart from wandering.On the whole men avoid confrontation like the plague, and the words "we need to talk" make them run for the hills. If you want to know how to keep him interested, avoiding rows is a good way to start. Often men don't realise when they've upset you, and starting an argument about it will just push them away. If they've done something you're not happy with, have a calm conversation about it instead of a row, and make sure you have a kiss and cuddle after to show that everything's ok.
Although men tend to marry women who have the qualities mentioned above, they prefer to do the pursuing at the beginning of the relationship. They thrive on "the thrill of the chase," and lose interest if a woman is too available. To give him the illusion of being the one in pursuit, a woman would be wise to play a bit hard to get at first. Here's how:Don't always pick up the phone on the first ring. Let him wonder where you are and what you are doing.Don't be instantly available when he asks you out. Tell him you'll have to check your calendar. And don't accept the date if you have a conflict.If he texts you or calls, let him wait for an hour or so before you respond. Let him know you are a busy, active woman who has better things to do than sit around waiting for him to call.Do wait for him to ask you out. If you do the asking, you will take the excitement out of the chase.Be a little mysterious and a lot of fun.
In addition to wanting to be the pursuer, men look for a little mystery and intrigue in a woman that interests them. Don't be too forthcoming with all the details of your life. Let him find out gradually what kind of person you are.Dress and act a little sexy and provocative. Tease him a little and show him what a fun person you can be and he'll soon be coming back for more.Be sure to continue to pursue your own interests and keep up with your friends. Let him know you have a full, rich life of your own and are a confident, self-sufficient woman. Decoding male psychology and acting accordingly with go a long way toward building a lasting relationship with a man.
Have there been times in your relationship that you think that the spark is gone or that he's changed? My boyfriend once told me that sometimes he wishes women would truly hear and understand them. I have to agree. Most of them aren't the egotistical, self centered Neanderthals that we sometimes think they are. But at the risk of using a worn out clich, men at times are really misunderstood. Honestly, the times when you think they're losing interest and you doing anything and everything to keep him interested in you most of the time makes the situation worse. So I asked him what should we do? According to him, here are a few tips on how to keep a guy interested in you:
Third, tell him important facts about you, but leave a little information to be a mystery. Whilst it is important to let him learn more facts about you, it will also be very favorable for you if you leave a little mystery. From time to time, let him ask questions about you. Don't just blurt out everything. If you do this, you'll increase his curiosity and you can be sure that he will turn his attention on you and will eventually stay with you much longer.
Fourth, don't be a chatterbox and listen to him. Most men love talking about themselves, so give your man a chance to talk. Listen to him intently and give him your undivided attention. Again, this is a good way to establish communication, as well as encourage him to open up to you and tell you even his problems and fears. Also, it will give you the opportunity to learn more about him.
Have you started taking your guy for granted? How long has it been since you took the pains to impress him? Read up on the latest sports events and find out facts about his favorite player. If you can tell him a thing or two he will be super impressed. Besides you will bring him closer to you. It's okay if you want to behave like a tramp for your man in your bedroom! He would be pleasantly surprised if you take the trouble to spice up your sex life! If he is sexually satisfied with you - he will not lose interest in you.
Probably one of the more common mistakes (that you don't even realize or won't admit you've been doing) is taking him for granted. Whatever happened to that sexy, hot and interesting woman he fell in love with? Just because you've been together for years doesn't give you the right to put on 20 pounds and go out in jogging pants and an old college sweater. Always try to look good both for yourself and for him.
[How To Keep Him Interested]
Although men tend to marry women who have the qualities mentioned above, they prefer to do the pursuing at the beginning of the relationship. They thrive on "the thrill of the chase," and lose interest if a woman is too available. To give him the illusion of being the one in pursuit, a woman would be wise to play a bit hard to get at first. Here's how:Don't always pick up the phone on the first ring. Let him wonder where you are and what you are doing.Don't be instantly available when he asks you out. Tell him you'll have to check your calendar. And don't accept the date if you have a conflict.If he texts you or calls, let him wait for an hour or so before you respond. Let him know you are a busy, active woman who has better things to do than sit around waiting for him to call.Do wait for him to ask you out. If you do the asking, you will take the excitement out of the chase.Be a little mysterious and a lot of fun.
In addition to wanting to be the pursuer, men look for a little mystery and intrigue in a woman that interests them. Don't be too forthcoming with all the details of your life. Let him find out gradually what kind of person you are.Dress and act a little sexy and provocative. Tease him a little and show him what a fun person you can be and he'll soon be coming back for more.Be sure to continue to pursue your own interests and keep up with your friends. Let him know you have a full, rich life of your own and are a confident, self-sufficient woman. Decoding male psychology and acting accordingly with go a long way toward building a lasting relationship with a man.
Have there been times in your relationship that you think that the spark is gone or that he's changed? My boyfriend once told me that sometimes he wishes women would truly hear and understand them. I have to agree. Most of them aren't the egotistical, self centered Neanderthals that we sometimes think they are. But at the risk of using a worn out clich, men at times are really misunderstood. Honestly, the times when you think they're losing interest and you doing anything and everything to keep him interested in you most of the time makes the situation worse. So I asked him what should we do? According to him, here are a few tips on how to keep a guy interested in you:
Third, tell him important facts about you, but leave a little information to be a mystery. Whilst it is important to let him learn more facts about you, it will also be very favorable for you if you leave a little mystery. From time to time, let him ask questions about you. Don't just blurt out everything. If you do this, you'll increase his curiosity and you can be sure that he will turn his attention on you and will eventually stay with you much longer.
Fourth, don't be a chatterbox and listen to him. Most men love talking about themselves, so give your man a chance to talk. Listen to him intently and give him your undivided attention. Again, this is a good way to establish communication, as well as encourage him to open up to you and tell you even his problems and fears. Also, it will give you the opportunity to learn more about him.
Have you started taking your guy for granted? How long has it been since you took the pains to impress him? Read up on the latest sports events and find out facts about his favorite player. If you can tell him a thing or two he will be super impressed. Besides you will bring him closer to you. It's okay if you want to behave like a tramp for your man in your bedroom! He would be pleasantly surprised if you take the trouble to spice up your sex life! If he is sexually satisfied with you - he will not lose interest in you.
Probably one of the more common mistakes (that you don't even realize or won't admit you've been doing) is taking him for granted. Whatever happened to that sexy, hot and interesting woman he fell in love with? Just because you've been together for years doesn't give you the right to put on 20 pounds and go out in jogging pants and an old college sweater. Always try to look good both for yourself and for him.
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