There is very little more attractive, fantastic, and satisfying than being around women who have something awaken inside them - an excursion, a calling, an adventure. I have been pretty lucky to have spent a lot of time with robust women - even raised by 2 who I would do absolutely anything for - women who have got their own dreams notwithstanding all the things they are fed incessantly by our society, bloom anyhow. They are unique in a world that's trying it's best to coaching them to be like everybody else. How amazing is that? Above all else, women act as moment by moment integrity checkers for men, oracles even, and if you can surround yourself with a bunch of strong girls, you will grow beyond belief, have your head lovingly cut off when you are surely not being the best man you really could be, and you may experience life itself and its gigantic selection of experiences. Like the sea they change and shift by the second, feelings and thoughts swarm...let that help you in finding your solidity. They will test you with their darkest moods and feelings - only to have them feel you are immovable, the mountain, inevitably going to be there regardless of what and firm in your purpose. These are gifts, not hinderances. These relationships create you, but if you deflate - they will destroy you. Seek them out - don't be at all intimidated women can move mountains. They are to surely be treasured.
The dynamics of my life in moving with feminine energy has changed almost 180 degrees for plenty of reasons. But oh how I have shifted deep inside. In the course of my life, I highly identified with female energy because I had two extremely strong and powerful women in my life - my sister and my mum - who are deeply driven and proficient in what they do. I even had a female dog who was my best friend when I was little and really tended to get along with women better than I did with men. I took the best from my father also, almost equally as driven, thoughtful, artistic and incentivized and turned into a product of my environment and nurturing.
As I went through the deep chaos of my younger years, I was "all that changes and shifts. " My moods, my angles, my emotions, and thoughts...I have described it many times...were like a tornado inside me that absolutely refused to quit. Even if it did stop momentarily, back up it would storm again. Combine that with lacking deep purpose after my baseball career finished and a big mess was made. So I crashed like the sea for a while...and eventually found my way to writing.
But very recently this dynamic shifted supremely as the bubbling up of my purpose came to me and I started to read, understand, and practice what true masculine energy really was. This hasn't only opened up my world, but has opened up the worlds of the great men who live around me. There's an idea that has entered into my mind which has stuck with me for months now, and it's the concept of the mountain. That solidity - identifying with what does not and will never change in this world. The undoubtable stability of being completely grounded in your position, a mirror to life itself, empty and ready to express your deepest passions and purpose - which is the expression of love itself.
When a man ultimately begins to understand this way of looking at things I am able to tell you...mountains don't just move in front of him...he becomes the mountain. Whatever occurs around him swirls and yet he is absolutely calm, snug, and is still rooted in his deepest desire. To find your purpose is far more than just what you do for work - it should be a direct leader in your life and will deepen your existing relationships your friendships, your family dynamics, and how you show up on the planet. It absolutely did for me. As quickly as this hit - bloom - unfold - open - closing the chasm - joy - inner wisdom - integrity - tenacity through anything.
Women are the same as the flowing ocean. They shift, change, and adjust by the second. In a moment, a peaceful beautiful ocean can turn into a sequence of rogue waves. As a man, you are there in your small rowboat wondering how the heck you're going to climb up that wave before it crests. Women are life itself. They offer, literally, what it suggests to be alive. Why do you really think they call it Mother Nature? Everything that shifts around you is moving energy, a type of power that's uniquely feminine energy and can be accessed. But those waves for men that do not understand what it really means to be the captain of their ship can be rocked straight out of their little boat - I cannot tell you how frequently I have been tossed out of my boat or perhaps even bailed before the wave hit. But give a man a purpose, and that wave begins to appear like fun. Also, that wave can induce your most important purpose.
This is the part that truly has changed my life fully.
Every day I sit down and write, I am absolutely driven by a kind of energy that is very different from anything that I have experienced before. I sit in my small chair outside on my porch...close my eyes, and breathe as deep into my stomach as I can. I find that density - that solidity - that love - that emptiness. There's this sort of energy that if you focus on it deep enough, it's almost a low frequency lull...that is incredibly deep and powerful. A wavelength which has existed far before everybody and one that will absolutelybe here forever after. I will feel it circulate through me often when I am on the mat. Then, I open and observe the things that are going on around me or take the time to run through the days events - using all the amazing things that changed - and get impressed by all of that energy. That energy runs straight through my writing - and yet, all at the very same time, I'm here, fully grounded in my place - living as if I was already dead.
Fear, in my heart, disappears.
There I am, grounded, in my deepest purpose, absolutely and utterly impressed by the women around me and that feminine energy...creating, loving seriously and open to all delicious uncertainty. It's this dynamic, the one between the male and the female - and my using both - that has taught me more than anything else. This has opened me up, changed my relationships, and helped me continue to discover parts of myself that I didn't know existed. Floods of amazing people have showed up in my life and I can see the whole thing morphing, only to grasp that it will all change and pass...and that is perfectly okay.
The dynamics of my life in moving with feminine energy has changed almost 180 degrees for plenty of reasons. But oh how I have shifted deep inside. In the course of my life, I highly identified with female energy because I had two extremely strong and powerful women in my life - my sister and my mum - who are deeply driven and proficient in what they do. I even had a female dog who was my best friend when I was little and really tended to get along with women better than I did with men. I took the best from my father also, almost equally as driven, thoughtful, artistic and incentivized and turned into a product of my environment and nurturing.
As I went through the deep chaos of my younger years, I was "all that changes and shifts. " My moods, my angles, my emotions, and thoughts...I have described it many times...were like a tornado inside me that absolutely refused to quit. Even if it did stop momentarily, back up it would storm again. Combine that with lacking deep purpose after my baseball career finished and a big mess was made. So I crashed like the sea for a while...and eventually found my way to writing.
But very recently this dynamic shifted supremely as the bubbling up of my purpose came to me and I started to read, understand, and practice what true masculine energy really was. This hasn't only opened up my world, but has opened up the worlds of the great men who live around me. There's an idea that has entered into my mind which has stuck with me for months now, and it's the concept of the mountain. That solidity - identifying with what does not and will never change in this world. The undoubtable stability of being completely grounded in your position, a mirror to life itself, empty and ready to express your deepest passions and purpose - which is the expression of love itself.
When a man ultimately begins to understand this way of looking at things I am able to tell you...mountains don't just move in front of him...he becomes the mountain. Whatever occurs around him swirls and yet he is absolutely calm, snug, and is still rooted in his deepest desire. To find your purpose is far more than just what you do for work - it should be a direct leader in your life and will deepen your existing relationships your friendships, your family dynamics, and how you show up on the planet. It absolutely did for me. As quickly as this hit - bloom - unfold - open - closing the chasm - joy - inner wisdom - integrity - tenacity through anything.
Women are the same as the flowing ocean. They shift, change, and adjust by the second. In a moment, a peaceful beautiful ocean can turn into a sequence of rogue waves. As a man, you are there in your small rowboat wondering how the heck you're going to climb up that wave before it crests. Women are life itself. They offer, literally, what it suggests to be alive. Why do you really think they call it Mother Nature? Everything that shifts around you is moving energy, a type of power that's uniquely feminine energy and can be accessed. But those waves for men that do not understand what it really means to be the captain of their ship can be rocked straight out of their little boat - I cannot tell you how frequently I have been tossed out of my boat or perhaps even bailed before the wave hit. But give a man a purpose, and that wave begins to appear like fun. Also, that wave can induce your most important purpose.
This is the part that truly has changed my life fully.
Every day I sit down and write, I am absolutely driven by a kind of energy that is very different from anything that I have experienced before. I sit in my small chair outside on my porch...close my eyes, and breathe as deep into my stomach as I can. I find that density - that solidity - that love - that emptiness. There's this sort of energy that if you focus on it deep enough, it's almost a low frequency lull...that is incredibly deep and powerful. A wavelength which has existed far before everybody and one that will absolutelybe here forever after. I will feel it circulate through me often when I am on the mat. Then, I open and observe the things that are going on around me or take the time to run through the days events - using all the amazing things that changed - and get impressed by all of that energy. That energy runs straight through my writing - and yet, all at the very same time, I'm here, fully grounded in my place - living as if I was already dead.
Fear, in my heart, disappears.
There I am, grounded, in my deepest purpose, absolutely and utterly impressed by the women around me and that feminine energy...creating, loving seriously and open to all delicious uncertainty. It's this dynamic, the one between the male and the female - and my using both - that has taught me more than anything else. This has opened me up, changed my relationships, and helped me continue to discover parts of myself that I didn't know existed. Floods of amazing people have showed up in my life and I can see the whole thing morphing, only to grasp that it will all change and pass...and that is perfectly okay.
About the Author:
Evan Sanders is the author of The Words Of Encouragement, a website devoted to spreading positive high-quality content to those who need a little spark and motivation in their lives. In celebration of the amazing women in his life, he developed a post dedicated to strong women quotes to celebrate just how much we can learn from having women in our lives.
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