In a world full of unlimited choice, adore those who go hard for you. Commitment is a very rare thing. It's one of the rarest things of all.
We are so afraid to commit because we don't want to put ourselves on the line and screw it up. We don't want to make ourselves look stupid and do the wrong thing.
So instead of actually making a decision about things, we live in that world of choice and never end up really making a decision.
All of these options create confusion and chaos in our mind and it becomes a paralysis in of itself.
This makes it so rare to come across someone who is going hard for their dreams or for other people.
But for a mass amount of people...they don't choose this path because they don't want to get hurt.
They don't want to make a wrong decision and end up looking bad because of it.
Instead, they play it safe...and because they do that...
They avoid getting hurt...
But they also stop themselves from becoming what they have always dreamed of. All of their dreams and aspirations avoid them because they refuse to take the risks necessary to see their dreams through.
And for many, by the time they realize that they had been living in this story, it is far too late.
So you have to truly go for it. You have to put forward your best effort and really take a dive into your dream.
If you crash and burn, you learned. You learned how something doesn't work and therefore you have the ability to move forward and figure out a way that it will work.
And if it does finally work out for you, you get to experience what it's like to have truly believed in something and really gone for it.
And if you actually learn that lesson, it will take you farther than you could imagine.
We are so afraid to commit because we don't want to put ourselves on the line and screw it up. We don't want to make ourselves look stupid and do the wrong thing.
So instead of actually making a decision about things, we live in that world of choice and never end up really making a decision.
All of these options create confusion and chaos in our mind and it becomes a paralysis in of itself.
This makes it so rare to come across someone who is going hard for their dreams or for other people.
But for a mass amount of people...they don't choose this path because they don't want to get hurt.
They don't want to make a wrong decision and end up looking bad because of it.
Instead, they play it safe...and because they do that...
They avoid getting hurt...
But they also stop themselves from becoming what they have always dreamed of. All of their dreams and aspirations avoid them because they refuse to take the risks necessary to see their dreams through.
And for many, by the time they realize that they had been living in this story, it is far too late.
So you have to truly go for it. You have to put forward your best effort and really take a dive into your dream.
If you crash and burn, you learned. You learned how something doesn't work and therefore you have the ability to move forward and figure out a way that it will work.
And if it does finally work out for you, you get to experience what it's like to have truly believed in something and really gone for it.
And if you actually learn that lesson, it will take you farther than you could imagine.
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